As writers we put a piece of ourselves in everything we write. Writing is a form of creativity, and our creativity stems from our very soul. A little piece of our experiences are scribbled into our writings along with our sweat, blood and tears. So it's no wonder most of us are insecure. Here's a list of some of the insecurities that plaque us and reasons why we need to get over them.
- What if I fail?
This is a common fear most people encounter when starting something new. The fear of failure. In a world full of uncertainty, we often settle for what we know or choose tasks with predictable outcomes instead of pushing ourselves to our greatest potential. But failing is okay. It's not the end of the world. The sooner you put yourself out there, the sooner you'll see that either way, failing or winning, there's more to accomplish.
- People will hate my writing.
Yes. Some people will hate your writing. Simply put, we can't please everyone. This is one of the many things we writers have to come to term with when developing a thick skin. Even some of the most established writers have haters. Focus on those who would love your work, and write to make them proud.
- I'll never be published.
If you think this way, you've already given up. And what happens when you give up? You create a self-fulfilling prophecy and, in fact, you will never be published. Reevaluate why you wanted to be published in the first place. Maybe then it'll be easier to keep pushing along. Remember, the difference between aspiring and being is the work you put in and the determination to see your dreams come true.
- I don't have enough credentials.
I know this is a catch 22. I hear this a lot. "How are we supposed to build credible credentials if no one will give us a chance to build credible credentials?" My advice … take a chance. Don't stop trying to be published, or never start, because you're afraid a reader or editor will think you're not experienced enough. You obviously know plenty about a subject to think you're the perfect one to write about it. So take a chance instead of letting your fears hinder you. Besides, the information and experience you do have might just be enough to make you qualified.